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The Best We Have to Offer

February 12, 2021 by Tyler McLaren Leave a Comment

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By Ty McLaren, DCI Fellow

As a cohort of Deliberative Citizenship Initiative fellows, we recently began reading Why We Argue (And How We Should): A Guide to Political Disagreement in an Age of Unreason by Scott F. Aikin and Robert B. Talisse, a pair of philosophers from Vanderbilt who focus on argumentation theory and democracy, respectively. Despite growing up in the age of hyper-individualism, the two authors suggest that we still derive much of what we believe from others. With each individual pursuing their own ideal truthful and good lives, it certainly comes as a surprise that we depend a great deal on others even though we so desperately do it alone.  Look no further than teachers, relatives, celebrities, experts of your respective field or job, and your peers to see that this is true. Simply put, our individual reality and understanding of that reality is heavily dependent on others and their ability to provide us reliable, accurate, sincere, and honest information. It is our duty to do the same for others.

Within the context of our nation’s current political and social narrative, this fact of human existence is terrifying–largely due to its damage from hyper-polarization and contempt. Deriving one’s understanding and perspective of the world seems like a good thing, particularly when individuals are exposed to all that the world has to offer. But when individuals isolate themselves, retreating back to partisan echo-chambers, biased news cycles, and peers with whom they only agree with, one misses out on the majority of information that the human experience has to offer. What is worse is that once this polarization and isolation sets in, our sense of reality becomes extremely manipulated. Due to confirmation and self-serving biases, we become convinced that “all opponents of our beliefs are silly, stupid, ignorant, unreliable, and evil.” Meanwhile, while we maintain close contact with those we passionately agree with, our understanding of the truth shifts further to the extreme in what is known in psychology as group polarization. As Aikin and Talissse put it, such “group polarization is caused by group dynamics, not reasons.”

Despite our shared pursuit of truth and virtue, who we choose to associate with has consequences, and continuing to subject yourselves to isolation, running from those we disagree with, and demonizing those we disagree with severs our connection with others and with our common goals as humans, perhaps never to be healed again as the rift continues to separate like tectonic plates. It seems as if our belief systems and our “truths” are beginning to seem completely incompatible.

This is why our work at the DCI is so important. Our D Teams and Deliberative Forums provide opportunities for individuals to break the current cycle of polarization and willingly engage with others with varying opinions on key issues. Just as many Americans have made the active decision to tune out, our work at the DCI is to encourage our community members to make the active decision to tune back in. Thus far, I have been thoroughly impressed by the vast array of perspectives and viewpoints I have been exposed to by our participants and by the enthusiasm I have observed. Although we focus on a small portion of the national reality, our grassroots approach seems like the most practical way to begin countering hyper-polarization by simply encouraging the best humans have to offer — our shared thirst for knowledge and the pursuit of truth.

Filed Under: Blog Posts, Fellow Posts

Bridging Divides

February 8, 2021 by Sam Bonge Leave a Comment

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By Sam Bonge, DCI Fellow

Of the 2020-21 fellows for the Deliberative Citizenship Initiative, I am the only natural science major student among the political science and other humanities and social science majors. Which makes sense in a way, as DCI is weighted heavily towards facilitating deliberations and topics which are often political in nature. 

However, I wanted to be a Deliberative Citizenship Fellow despite not being interested in political science, or even majoring in the humanities, because I want to improve my understanding of the concrete concepts and issues facing our society from a lens I don’t usually see as a STEM major. I also want to learn to listen to others’ experiences without inserting my own preconceived opinions, both generally as a citizen at a time of high political tension, and as someone who intends to work in the medical field in the future. Such work will require me to work with patients from a wide range of experiences and identities. 

One of the main things I’ve learned as a fellow is the importance of bridging divides, and at a minimum, listening to perspectives outside of your own, because otherwise you run the risk of isolating yourself in a bubble or echo chamber. If no one listens to anyone who they don’t already agree with, no one learns anything new, and nothing ever changes – which is why we see Deliberation as one of the first steps to bridging political divide, and enacting change, along with other forms of activism. 

One of the big divides I see, outside of politics, is in humanities versus STEM – who’s work is more important, who’s work dismantles and who’s enforces bigoted or harmful systems, who’s work is more difficult. There are harmful stereotypes among STEM students that humanities are less worthwhile, less rigorous. There are harmful stereotypes among humanities students that STEM is less connected to the world outside its academic bubble and is too difficult to understand. I think it’s important to bring the two together to get a complete picture, it’s why I choose to come to a liberal arts school in the first place. I think when we are trying to bridge divides, we should look at not just what people’s beliefs are, what side of the political spectrum they are on, but why they’re there, and where they’re coming from as well. 

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Communication is Key

January 28, 2021 by Camryn Ellis Leave a Comment

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By Camryn Ellis, DCI Fellow

I applied to become a fellow for the Deliberative Citizenship Initiative at Davidson College because it seemed to be an interesting and productive program. It being a space that encourages people to engage in deliberation on social issues that are hard to talk about and are usually only met with controversy was what caught my attention. Usually when I discuss political and social issues, I find that people are not really interested in changing their perspective. It’s always them ranting about all the reasons their beliefs are right and when I question them, the critique is taken personally and then it’s just a whole mess.

I’m not going to lie though, I, too, sometimes don’t always take critiques of my beliefs too well, either. I have recently realized that I sometimes think I’m more open to different ways of thinking than I actually am. I was interested in becoming a DCI Fellow because I want to challenge myself to learn how to listen better to people who feel differently than I do and to have and facilitate conversations that may be filled with controversy.

The DCI displayed itself to be a place where I could engage with people who have different perspectives and come together to productively and respectively deliberate on important social issues. I was excited to see the diversity of lived experiences I hoped to encounter. But after the first day, I knew that racial diversity would not really be in the cards for us this semester given that no one else in the cohort of fellows (except me) was Black.

This was disappointing and honestly not what I was expecting. Then when we received the topics that the cohort had suggested and ranked highest and we would be deliberating on, I was even more confused and unsure about how I felt about this program. While I think they are important social issues to discuss, the topics of Davidson’s history of enslavement and police brutality felt very overwhelming to me, especially since I would be the only Black person who would be participating in these cohort discussions.

I decided to talk to my DCI co-facilitator about this issue and she was so understanding and validating of my experience. She always reached out to see how I was feeling throughout the semester, especially when the week’s social issue was heavily influenced by racism. We were able to work out a solution where I would not serve as a facilitator during those weeks but would play a more active role in other weeks. As our DCI facilitator training emphasized, we may not always be able or ready to facilitate conversations on any and every topic, and that is okay.

In any case, as the weeks went by, the relationship between my co-facilitator and I made me feel that I was not so alone. And from our time together as DCI co-facilitators, we not only worked together, but also became friends.

From my experience, I have learned how important it is to truly listen to others, regardless of whether or not you share similar social identities and perspectives. Whether one is listening to a friend in need or is having a discussion about the current social and political realities of America, good communication is key. I have learned that the first step to good communication isn’t to make sure you are the loudest one in the room or that you use a great deal of jargon, but to instead listen to others, validate their lived experiences, and try to emphasize the ways that you can relate to one another, rather than highlighting all the ways that you don’t.

Filed Under: Blog Posts, Fellow Posts Tagged With: D Teams, DCI, facilitation, Fellows

Deliberation and the Holidays: Deck the Halls Not Your Uncle

December 3, 2020 by Dalton Langdon Leave a Comment

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By Dalton Langdon, DCI Fellow

The holidays are a time for gathering and spending time with loved ones. For many, the process of going home around the holidays is not always seen as a joyous occasion, but one of contention and argument – especially during an election year. If you are anything like me, you’ve probably thought long and hard about what you might say to your family this year about the current political atmosphere. You may have even practiced what you are going to say, fact checked yourself, or geared yourself up like you’re going to take the stage for debate. I am here to say there is an alternative approach to discussing politics with family…the path of deliberative conversation.

Through the Deliberative Citizenship Initiative, I have learned a few different skills I would like to share with you now to help ease you through the holiday season. However, before we lean into these skills, I want to first dissuade you of the notion that swearing off politics altogether is the key to a quiet, stress-free holiday break. While many think avoiding the topic of politics is the smartest move to avoid conflict, I respectfully disagree. By avoiding these difficult conversations, we allow feelings of resentment to fester and grow, until finally they are unleashed in a whirlwind of barbarous insults. Instead of playing the proverbial ostrich with our heads in the sand, I instead suggest we all consider using the following framework when having our next contentious political conversation: 1) set the stage and expectations, 2) listen with strength, 3) ask probing questions, 4) find common ground, and 5) show grace.

Set the Stage and Expectations

Before engaging with a relative this holiday season on a controversial topic, first ask yourself “what do I hope to gain from this conversation and what is my intent?” The objective of having an informal and unstructured conversation should not be to change the other person’s mind or win the conversation, but to gain perspective. Set this expectation early and make your intention well known. Disagreement will happen, that is natural; productive deliberations depend on how you react and your willingness to understand the other person’s point of view.

Listen with Strength

Listening with strength is all about active listening without judgement. While this sounds like an easy process – it does not come as intuitively as one may think. Typically speaking, we give a person about a quarter of our attention while devoting the rest of our attention to formulating a response. Active listening means giving the person your undivided attention and listening to understand them. This takes practice and can be accomplished by rephrasing what your conversation partner said previously – this way they know you are in fact hearing them.

Ask Probing Questions

Asking probing questions is just as important as actively listening. Asking follow-up or clarifying questions can showcase you are invested in learning more about the person’s perspective. To get at this deeper level of understanding, try asking the five Ws:

  • Who in your life had the most impact on the way you think about this issue?
  • What life experiences might have led you to develop this view?
  • Where do you see this issue playing out in your life?
  • When do you think your view applies? Are there any exceptions?
  • Why is this issue so important to you?

Find Common Ground

After asking probing questions, try to find connections or areas of agreement with the person. You can identify common ground by noting words or phrases your conversation partner said and trace them back to values like liberty, equality, or kindness. By finding a shared common value, you further validate the person and become aware of the perspective from which they view an issue (e.g., “it sounds like the right to choose is really important to you in this context”). Generally speaking, when it comes to politics and values there is no one objectively correct perspective, but by hearing the person out and finding common ground you can see where they are coming from and hopefully learn from their perspective.

Show Grace

Lastly and possibly most importantly, give the other person the benefit of the doubt. If we go into a conversation with a negative mindset, chances are high that we have put on our blinders and will bulldoze through the conversation. Thus, the conversation will become a self-fulfilling prediction; the conversation is going to go horribly, and we shouldn’t even try to avoid that outcome. However, if you show a bit of grace, avoid snap judgements, and assume the best about the other person, chances are you might just have a productive conversation.

I submit this framework to you not lightly, but with high hopes that we can all unbury our heads from our respective sandboxes and take the first steps toward meaningful and deliberative conversations. Happy holidays!

For more on how to have productive dialogues with friends and family, check out the DCI’s “Guide to One-On-One Conversations” and “How to Disagree.”

Filed Under: Blog Posts, Fellow Posts Tagged With: deliberation

The Taijitu of Conversation and Activism

November 20, 2020 by Heidi North Leave a Comment

By Heidi North, DCI Fellow

“…and that visibility which makes us the most vulnerable is that which also is the source of our greatest strength.” -Audre Lorde

This quote, from a legendary poet and activist for queer and civil rights, perfectly encompasses the spirit of deliberative practice and its goal in helping us to realize that civil conversations between differing perspectives, and the solutions that may arise from those, are the strength of true democracy.

I approach the art of deliberative citizenship from my identity as a queer woman, which is the lens through which I view the world. Not just queer sexuality, but queer as in an identity that runs counter to what we accept as ideal and normal in Western society. Much of my research and work within the DCI has been focused on the art of civil conversation, and the potential it has to heal the rifts in our country and end the polarization that dehumanizes the Other. I do this alongside grassroots activism within Davidson College where discussion, paired with action, is done civilly, yet with intention.

Audre Lorde embodied this dynamic — discussion paired with aggressive action. So did Martin Luther King, Jr. This relationship between conversation and activism is a taijitu; one cannot exist without the other, and neither is effective alone; it is also a core pillar of deliberation. Both require vulnerability, especially if you hold a marginalized identity and are routinely denied a place at the table, but in very different ways. Discussion allows us to peel away the layers of ourselves and our culture and understand why we are the way we are; activism confronts those realizations with action that cultivates, and sometimes forces, change.

In my D-Teams and in my DCI groups, we’ve had discussions about this balance — that we cannot just discuss these contentious issues; we have a responsibility to act and to inspire action. We have a responsibility to share resources and to make education and learning as accessible as possible. However, we also cannot act without first educating ourselves, and committing to understanding our culture and the many points of view that comprise our communities. I’ve been a student of queer theory for the past 4 years, and this is the first time that I’ve been able to see and nurture this balance in real life.

It’s interesting to see the way obstacles — whether personal, political, or social — present themselves and threaten this work being done, and the flexibility we must have to allow for those obstacles while still insisting on the crucial importance of this work and holding ourselves accountable to it. The deliberative process makes us intensely vulnerable, and can be uncomfortable at times, but we cannot be truly strong as individuals, as a nation, or as a species, until we truly and authentically participate in it.

Filed Under: Blog Posts, Fellow Posts Tagged With: facilitation

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